I was talking with my sister, Mrs. Blue Frost, about how important it is to know what you bring to the table in a relationship, whether it’s monogamous, you’re part […]

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LinkedIn is NOT a Dating App: Etiquette and Boundaries on Social Media

Because I specialise in sex, intimacy and relationships, my social media content is often all about sex.  My profile headshot is considered sexy by some because my cleavage is visible.    My bios clearly state that I am a coach, a therapist,…
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Structuring Polyamorous Relationships: Can We Really Remove Hierarchy?

In the 21stcentury, all varieties of consensual nonmonogamy have become trendy.  From Cosmopolitan to The New York Times to The Guardian articles and exposés about polyamory abound. Over and over, I read about the best ways and even…
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Is Polyamory with a Monogamous Partner Possible? Poly/Mono Relationships 2.0

This is in update to my article done in January 2017. I have had more feedback on this blog post than on any other. Many people have written to get advice on their individual situations. This illustrates how complex it is to find an arrangement…
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Non-Monogamy and Hierarchical Relationships: From Polyamory to Owner Loaner Model

Polyamorous relationships come in an infinite number of configurations. For more about how different open relationships might look including an owner loaner relationship, you can find one of my articles hereand a seriesof podcastshere. D/s…
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Sex Spoken Here: Mason deRou

Welcome to my virtual therapy room!  I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones.   This week I am interviewing…
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Master Black Zeus

Master Black Zeus Welcome to my virtual therapy room!  I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this Vlog deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones. This…
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Consent in 2018

With the recent Supreme Court confirmation hearings, the issue of consent has been shoved into the foreground of daily life again. The conversations around consent on social media, in the mainstream media and on the street highlight to me that…
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Common Mistakes People in Non-Monogamous Relationships Make that Can Bring the Drama

One of the things I have noticed over the past number of years is how often a simple relationship mistake can bring drama with a capital D that lasts for ages. Often these mistakes fall into a few obvious categories. 1 It’s easier to ask…