I was talking with my sister, Mrs. Blue Frost, about how important it is to know what you bring to the table in a relationship, whether it’s monogamous, you’re part […]

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Here’s What Guy’s Find So Freakin’ HOT About Rough BDSM Sex

With so many mixed messages between men and women, what is this really about? It seems that since 50 Shades of Grey became popular, rough sex and BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/submission, Sadism/Masochism) have hit the mainstream. References…
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5 Things Straight Women Can Learn from LGBTQ Sisters

5 Things (Vanilla) Straight Girls Can Learn from Their LGBTQ and Kinky Sisters We have lots in common with each other, we are sisters after all.  But some years ago I realised that I don’t go about relationships, dating and sex in quite…
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A is for Arousal

A is for Arousal which is where sex begins.  There is no sex without arousal.  Arousal begins in the mind.  Even for those of us who first experience arousal through visual means – seeing someone we find attractive, for example.  Vision…

8 Lessons ANYONE Can Learn From Long Distance Relationships

Stir it up a little — or a lot! Long distance relationships that survive can teach all of us how to keep a relationship alive and vibrant. I was in a long distance relationship (LDR) — 5,450 miles as the crow flies — for 5 ½ years…
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5 Essential Facts You Need to Know about Kissing

1 Couples who enjoy kissing and do it well have healthier relationships Kissing is one of the most intimate acts we perform as human beings. We kiss to demonstrate affection, to demonstrate desire and to increase desire. Darwin wrote about…
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3 Myths About Fantasies that Stop You Realising Your Dreams

Do you stop yourself from fantasizing? Are you worried that there is something wrong with you because of the things that make you hot? Here are three myths that keep us from enjoying our sexual imaginations. Myth Number 1: If you fantasize…
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5 Ways to Bring Back Fire to Relationships Pt 5

In parts 1 – 4 of this series, I gave you tips on communicating, creating the space, using imagination and role play to bring back the sizzle in your sexual relationships. In the last part of this series, I end with 7 suggestions for a steamy…
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5 Ways to Bring Fire to Your Relationships, Pt 4

In parts 1-3 of this series, we looked at using imagination, setting the scene and good communication to bring the blaze back in a relationship.  This week, we look at keeping the fire burning. 4.   Fires Need Fuel To keep a blaze burning…
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5 Ways to Bring Fire to Your Relationships, Pt 3

In weeks 1 and 2, I set the scene to help you begin to bring back that flame.  I spoke about creating space and time to for you, to focus on your sexual life and make it a priority.  This week, I move to looking at starting the fire. 3.  Fire…