Psychologist, Intimacy & Sex Coach

Dr Lori Beth Bisbey

As an Accredited Advanced GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity) Therapist (Pink Therapy), sex & intimacy coach, and registered psychologist, I’m here to help you explore and express your authentic intimate self.

Looking for a safe space to explore and express sexuality, gender, hidden desires, relationship choices, past trauma? Since 1987, I have been helping people explore sex and intimacy, recreate healthy sexual identities following trauma, explore, create and maintain consensually non-monogamous relationships, as well as deepen their awareness and understanding about intimacy and relationships.

I am on a mission to bring sex and conversations about sex out of the shadows and into the light of day and help people to embrace the myriad of relationship options so they can choose wisely. I also focus on highlighting and teaching the skills needed to maximize joy. Everyone has the right to be authentic, explore and experiment with what arouses, excites and frees them.

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Open House: the great sex experiment

Season 2 out now on Channel 4

Committed couples come to a luxury retreat to explore whether having open relationships and sex with other people can strengthen their bond.

This is a Safe space where you can be sexually authentic

Putting and end to the shame or blame you feel around arouses you, excites and ignites you is the only way to live in congruence with who you really are

What if you could have the incredible relationships & sex you dream of now? Relationship dissatisfaction is linked to health issues and poor quality of life overall. For more than 35 years, I have been working with people to help them create, improve and maintain their relationships (including sizzling sex without shame).

Self-guided courses

Whatever your relationship goals, work out how to achieve them in your own time and at your own pace, with my range of self-guided courses

Ways I can help you

I help each of my clients in different ways, below are just a few of the areas in which I have expertise.

Bring your true sexual self to life

Maybe you’re ready to give voice to your desires and explore what excites you. Maybe you’re curious about kink. Maybe you don’t fancy sex at all. Or are craving new sexual experiences outside of what’s considered “the norm.” Maybe you prefer to have more than one partner or one relationship at a time? Isn’t it time you gave yourself permission to explore? (The answer’s YES.)

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Find place and meaning

Sexual orientation, gender, nonmonogamy. BDSM. Regardless of what your personal identifications, proclivities/preferences are, you have the right to express yourself without fear of judgment, consequence, or punishment (unless you’re into that). I help you explore and express your authentic sexual, gender identities, and relationship style with compassion, confidentiality, and care.

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Get out of a relationship rut

Maybe you’re not having sex as often as you’d like. Or your sex life feels vanilla when what you’re actually craving is rocky road. Or maybe you have trouble getting off. I’m here to tell you, it DOESN’T have to be this way. You CAN enjoy a fulfilling, freeing, fabulous sex life where you AND your partner(s) get your wants, needs, and desires met.

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Work through trauma

Regardless of what the trauma was/is, you DON’T have to continue to re-experience it. As a registered psychologist with a specialty in treating trauma AND as a human being who experienced trauma and sexual violence, I can facilitate your healing so the trauma is firmly in the past and not available for triggering.

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What my clients say

“I don’t think I’ve ever felt so free to be open and honest about myself as I am when I work with and talk to Lori! Our sessions have enabled me to transform my life and my relationships in a way that I did not think was possible. I gain much valuable insight and self- awareness through our sessions and would recommend her without hesitation to both couples and individuals who want to get more out of their lives and relationships!”

“I have been working with Lori Beth for about 8 months, both as part of a couple and on my own. Her warm, enthusiastic and open nature makes her very easy to talk to, and her intellectual rigour and heavyweight background means that I have absolute confidence in her ability to manage some of the more challenging emotional issues I have had to deal with. Lori provides insightful guidance as well as a truly non-judgmental and welcoming space to be heard in.”

“As a coach, Lori Beth is direct and makes it easy to talk about the hard bits. Thanks to our work with her, my partner and I have a sex life again – and it is hotter than it ever was before the baby! We have more fun together and feel closer than we ever have before. We can’t thank Lori Beth enough for helping us to re-light our fire!”

“I get a great deal out of my sessions with Lori in helping me with my relationships. She has helped me identify what is important to me and to have the courage to discuss this with any partner going forward.”

“My primary relationship recently went through a great deal of change. Dr Lori Beth helped me manage the change and look forward to the next stages in my life with my eyes fully open.”