Consent in 2018

With the recent Supreme Court confirmation hearings, the issue of consent has been shoved into the foreground of daily life again. The conversations around consent on social media, in the mainstream media and on the street highlight to me that few people truly understand the topic and those who do, don’t necessarily believe that people […]

How to Support (and Still Be Sexual With) Your Girlfriend With Sexual Trauma


I often get asked by men how to help their partners who have experienced sexual trauma.  They have questions about talking to their partners about the trauma, managing and helping with symptoms and how to have a fulfilling sex life without re-traumatising their partners. Sexual trauma comes in many forms from childhood sexual abuse to […]